If you think you know, You don’t.

If you think you get to judge a situation you’ve never been in, think again honey. If you think you know what’s best about a scenario you’ve never been apart of, then kindly, shut up. Unless you’re voice is going to be used to build up those in the situation then sit down and shut the fuck up.

My intentions have been called into question so many times in different situations but when it comes to divorce, my kids & co parenting, I will stop at nothing to make sure my kids are happy & mentally well. Well enough to stand up for themselves, to call out lies and bullshit. To know when someone is trying to manipulate them.

Is divorce hard, yes & no. Depends on how you move forward, depends on if you choose to let the animosity go, depends on what outcome you want for your mental health and your children’s perspective. If you choose to be vindictive, well you deserve shit. If you choose to make things difficult and hard, your victim act will be seen through immediately.

If you ever find yourself in a situation such as a co parenting relationship and they hide things from you, or refuse to show you messages between their coparent and themselves. Ask questions. If they consistently claim you’re crazy or obsessed, ask questions. If they spend more time showering you than their kids, ask questions. Lastly, if you find yourself in this situation and don’t try every day to make sure it’s as good as it can get or better than the last day, try harder or get the fuck out. If you don’t ask questions, or push someone to be better. Just leave.

I will live and die on this mountain until I’m blue in the face. I will hold anyone accountable. I will ask as many questions as I want and I will be here for all the screen shots and receipts from both sides. Those babies are what is the most important and if you don’t fight like hell to work as a team every single day, you’re blind and clueless.

So, go ahead and call me every name in the book, accuse me of whatever but honey, those screenshots are all the proof I need. I also have the best support system. I also never stop working on myself, finding new boundaries and praying to God that no one has to deal with what I do. It could be worse and it could be better and for that I’ll never stop praying.