Today I unfollowed someone on Instagram for being incredibly fake. This person has gone through separation & divorce and is actively talking about it online. They state they want to be transparent and share the good the bad and the ugly but they don’t. They gloss over or talk around the points, even when theyContinue reading “Unfollow That Fake S**T”
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I’m Allowed
You’re allowed to eat first. If everyone scatters when you get home, eat a warm meal before they hound you. You’re allowed to delegate tasks to your family. No, you didn’t have kids to solely do the chores everyone expects you to do but those chores are also life skills, team building & future planning.Continue reading “I’m Allowed”
Teen Boys -What A Trip
Someone better stand up and take accountability for NOT telling me that teen boys are freaking hard! This is not what I expected at all. I feel lied to, tricked & gas lit. What the flying hell! Why aren’t we talking about the emotions, the dramatics & the heavy arguments. Why aren’t we talking aboutContinue reading “Teen Boys -What A Trip”
Manipulation
This could probably be my favorite thing to point out. When you are hyper aware and do the work on it, you see it in everything. That’s really sad honestly when you think about it. I keep seeing meme’s and reels this week that hit really hard and I want to share them all butContinue reading “Manipulation”
How can you be so complicit?
I’m unsure how to title this, so I’m going to wing it and try later. I wonder what the other person thinks when they become the other parent. As in you marry or date into a co parent situation. What do you think if you’re single and kid less going into a coparent relationship? AreContinue reading “How can you be so complicit?”
If you think you know, You don’t.
If you think you get to judge a situation you’ve never been in, think again honey. If you think you know what’s best about a scenario you’ve never been apart of, then kindly, shut up. Unless you’re voice is going to be used to build up those in the situation then sit down and shutContinue reading “If you think you know, You don’t.”
8th Grade – The year everything changed
It’s hard to imagine that I have an 8th grader. Let alone a kid who can get his permit and legally start driving. To think about what I was doing and where I was at mentally at his age is almost out of this world. Brecken, is my first born son. As the first bornContinue reading “8th Grade – The year everything changed”
I’m so proud of you!
I did something today that Danielle 5 years ago would be so proud of! She’d be proud of my courage to push past my anxiety. She’d be so proud that I’ve chosen to stand my ground. That I’m not going to take silence as an answer. I’m not going to take back talk as anContinue reading “I’m so proud of you!”
Is there ever really a last straw?
At what point do you think this is it! This is my last straw, this is the last comment, the last missed appointment, the last break down, argument, tantrum, whatever the last straw is for you. I feel like Horton, from Horton Hears a Who, holding onto that flower for dear life sometimes. When IContinue reading “Is there ever really a last straw?”
Dora’s been dead for a while now…..
2 years ago I wrote a social media post basically demanding everyone stop calling me Dora. It was a nickname I received right before I had kids that eventually gave me what felt like a drowning identity crisis. Fast forward towards the end of my marriage & it started to feel like it was aContinue reading “Dora’s been dead for a while now…..”
Danielle Bitz 