I’m Allowed

You’re allowed to eat first. If everyone scatters when you get home, eat a warm meal before they hound you. You’re allowed to delegate tasks to your family. No, you didn’t have kids to solely do the chores everyone expects you to do but those chores are also life skills, team building & future planning.Continue reading “I’m Allowed”

Manipulation

This could probably be my favorite thing to point out. When you are hyper aware and do the work on it, you see it in everything. That’s really sad honestly when you think about it. I keep seeing meme’s and reels this week that hit really hard and I want to share them all butContinue reading “Manipulation”

If you think you know, You don’t.

If you think you get to judge a situation you’ve never been in, think again honey. If you think you know what’s best about a scenario you’ve never been apart of, then kindly, shut up. Unless you’re voice is going to be used to build up those in the situation then sit down and shutContinue reading “If you think you know, You don’t.”

Is there ever really a last straw?

At what point do you think this is it! This is my last straw, this is the last comment, the last missed appointment, the last break down, argument, tantrum, whatever the last straw is for you. I feel like Horton, from Horton Hears a Who, holding onto that flower for dear life sometimes. When IContinue reading “Is there ever really a last straw?”

Dora’s been dead for a while now…..

2 years ago I wrote a social media post basically demanding everyone stop calling me Dora. It was a nickname I received right before I had kids that eventually gave me what felt like a drowning identity crisis. Fast forward towards the end of my marriage & it started to feel like it was aContinue reading “Dora’s been dead for a while now…..”