Unfollow That Fake S**T

Today I unfollowed someone on Instagram for being incredibly fake. This person has gone through separation & divorce and is actively talking about it online. They state they want to be transparent and share the good the bad and the ugly but they don’t. They gloss over or talk around the points, even when theyContinue reading “Unfollow That Fake S**T”

I’m Allowed

You’re allowed to eat first. If everyone scatters when you get home, eat a warm meal before they hound you. You’re allowed to delegate tasks to your family. No, you didn’t have kids to solely do the chores everyone expects you to do but those chores are also life skills, team building & future planning.Continue reading “I’m Allowed”

Teen Boys -What A Trip

Someone better stand up and take accountability for NOT telling me that teen boys are freaking hard! This is not what I expected at all. I feel lied to, tricked & gas lit. What the flying hell! Why aren’t we talking about the emotions, the dramatics & the heavy arguments. Why aren’t we talking aboutContinue reading “Teen Boys -What A Trip”

Manipulation

This could probably be my favorite thing to point out. When you are hyper aware and do the work on it, you see it in everything. That’s really sad honestly when you think about it. I keep seeing meme’s and reels this week that hit really hard and I want to share them all butContinue reading “Manipulation”

Dora’s been dead for a while now…..

2 years ago I wrote a social media post basically demanding everyone stop calling me Dora. It was a nickname I received right before I had kids that eventually gave me what felt like a drowning identity crisis. Fast forward towards the end of my marriage & it started to feel like it was aContinue reading “Dora’s been dead for a while now…..”